Believe and You Will Get Pregnant?
You have to believe it to see it, is a popular mantra.
But if that were true, many Fertile Heart babies wouldn’t be here today.
Because belief is fickle. Tuesday we believe. Wednesday we don’t.
What really matters is how we show up—Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, every day.
What matters is whether we can act as if we believed.
I didn’t always believe what I was doing would bring me a child. But I was desperate enough to show up in a way I never had before.
That’s what the Fertile Heart practice is about—giving us tools for the days when belief disappears. The days when it feels like nothing we do can make a difference.
That’s when we need something to hold onto. That’s when we need a practice.
Belief comes and goes.
It’s the practice of showing up, again and again—clarifying what we truly long for, and acting from that place of clarity—that changes everything.
To wait for faith before we pray is to put the cart before the horse.
To wait for belief before taking action on our own behalf is just as backward.
Sometimes, it’s the very act of showing up that creates belief.
