Julia’s Blog: Who Will Speak Up for You?

By on September 16, 2019


If you were to ask me to name some things I most wished for throughout my life, I’d say I often hoped someone would speak up for me.

Growing up with so many stories of unfathomable crimes committed against people closest to me, I was acutely sensitized to injustice but clueless about what I could do to change the status quo. Whenever I perceived that I was treated poorly, unable to challenge the powers that be, I thought, If only I could come upon someone kind and caring, someone far more powerful than me, who would set things right.

It really was that magical double 42: an FSH of 42 at the age of 42 that finally taught me to realize I had a voice of my own and I had a choice.

Without learning to use my own voice, I could be looking for saviors for the rest of my life. I could remain paralyzed by the fear of the powerful Other, letting all those unspoken grievances keep weighing me down, depleting my lifeforce.

That didn’t seem like a viable approach to living my life. Which is why I’m here, hoping to take the conversation further.

Hoping that for you as well, silence will not be a viable choice.

The first, the safest and also the most risky space for voicing all that we haven’t dared to voice before is the privacy of our own heart. We can then grow brave enough speaking those truths in the privacy of a trusted circle of allies. And then perhaps even gain the courage to speak it publicly.

Because for those muted voices within us there is nothing more healing then for once being seen and heard.

Looking back at your family birthing or any other journey, is there something you wish you could’ve voiced? You still can. The Truth doesn’t go anywhere. It’s still there, waiting for you to see it, hear it, speak it.

4 Responses to “Julia’s Blog: Who Will Speak Up for You?”

  1. Roselove says:

    I have been finding ways to support myself. I have been working with my orphans for the last 2 weeks. I have been doing the field of creation imaginery work everyday and dealing with my fears, anger, frustrations that appear by the days go by, when different situations or comments trigger my orphans. My dreams are coming clearer and vivid also and some make me wake up really anxious and fearful but I know it’s an opportunity to look inside me and clear the path to
    meet my baby half way.

    I also supporting myself by changing my sleep ruitine. I used to go sleep at 12am or even past that, being at the computer or telephone. I am turning off any electrical by 9pm and read something or journal and sleep by 10.30pm. And it feels so comforting to look after myself.
    I am so thankfull for this community.

  2. Gravid Sans Doute says:

    Dear Fertile Mamas,

    My assignment is to do something delicious for myself. This is a difficult assignment for me so I am taking baby steps. I have been working on taking moments out to breathe as deeply as I can and then focus on an area of my body that needs attention and bring relaxation there. I also enjoyed ballroom dancing with my husband in the living room last night to some music he picked out! I have been working with the Guided Meditation from the Body Truth Cd and using the the Grand Hall of Forgiveness imagery from Imagery I as modified in the call.

    Blessings to all.

  3. Gravid Sans Doute says:

    Dear Fertile Mamas,

    When I was growing up there were a lot of things that didn’t seem right – and today as well. I feel that part of my voice is being part of a Faith whose major principles include the elimination of all forms of prejudice and the establishment of more real justice for all.

    I have been working with part of the Guided Meditation from the Body Truth CDs and Meeting Your Child Halfway from Fertile Heart Imagery II.

    Blessings to all!

  4. Sweetchildofmine says:

    The truth sets you free. As does your incredible practice. Thank you for guiding the way. This piece resonates and means a lot.

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